Q: Hello Valorie,
I am excited that I am steadily getting new clients for my communication consulting business. The only problem that has recently come about is how to handle male clients that want to be more than your client. I am single at this time, but I do not want to blur the lines between a professional and casual relationship. I know you are married now, which may not affect some men's advances, but is there any advice you can give on how to handle such situations?
A: Be very clear and firm about your desire for a strictly professional relationship. You do not need to go into a detailed explanation. If the man does not honor your request, then do not acknowledge his further advances and personal conversation. Make sure you are not doing or saying anything that leads him to believe you are not serious about not wanting anything but a professional relationship. Once a lady says she is uninterested, she is not obliged to continue discussing the same topic repeatedly.
If it continues, move on from him as a client. Build your business up to the point that dropping a client who causes you to feel uncomfortable is something you can afford to do.
Warm wishes,
Valorie
Valorie Burton, a life coach and professional speaker, is the author of Listen to Your Life, Rich Minds, Rich Rewards and What's Really Holding You Back?. Subscribe to her FREE, inspirational e-newsletter at www.valorieburton.com.
