Do You Fall for Unavailable Guys?

Date: Wednesday, November 11, 2009, 3:07 pm
By: Dawn Yanek, Match.com


You know how the story plays out: You’re crazy about a guy—he seems to like you, but always avoids any kind of real courtship or commitment. According to the best-selling book, maybe the reality is that “he’s just not that into you,” and you need to just accept that harsh truth.

Not so fast, says therapist Ian Kerner, author of the new rebuttal book, Be Honest, You’re Not That Into Him Either: Stop Lowering Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve. Here, he shares his thoughts on why women chase guys who don’t give them the time of day, and how to break that cycle.


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